Why did some guys succeed with women without even trying while other guys fail with women no matter how hard they try? Why did these guys, seemingly arrogant, get women? Why did these jerks succeed where he, the nice young guy, failed? “Because you’re a wimp!” answered the jerks. But the Nice Guy responded in…
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15 Lessons for Young Men: Do Not Contain Yourself With Formulas (Lesson 9)
Oh, how he wanted success with women! Why did others do so well and he so poorly? All jocks did was breathe and grunt to get chicks, and he did everything possible with no success. Alas, the pangs of desprised love! She was beautiful, wonderful, but only wanted him as a friend. In fact, every…
15 Lessons for Young Men: Only The Sexual Ones Get The Girls (Lesson 8)
Now the young man had battle plans galore for the women. “If she does this…” he said, “I will do this.” He memorized the interest signals and was stuffed with philosophies. Yet, he noticed that guys who did knew nothing of seduction scored left and right. How did they do it? Also, he faced a…
15 Lessons for Young Men: Respect is All (Lesson 7)
This young man thought he had become successful with his desire. Boyfriend and girlfriend were they; the hard awkward early moments finally gone. All was good! Except… “I am hungry,” (are they not always hungry!?). “Fetch me lunch.” Poor young man! He had enough wisdom not to do this earlier, but now, he told himself,…
15 Lessons for Young Men: You are the Great Catch (Lesson 6)
The guy was on a prowl for a girlfriend. He approached many girls and did everything he could to WIN them. He failed miserably. With one girl, he brought flowers. With another girl, he brought her gifts. Yet, with another girl he brought her candy. In conversations, he would be agreeable to everything she said.…
15 Lessons for Young Men: Trust The Gut (Lesson 5)
A woman was crushing on him badly and the guy was bewildered and stunned for this was unfamiliar ground for him. He was now wise enough to have patience. But… She would get close to him. Her eyes would shine like stars. She would make jokes about kisses and kissing. He felt the urge to…
15 Lessons for Young Men: Patience is the Refined Sense of Confidence (Lesson 4)
A man found himself in the company of lovely ladies. Alas, also in company were several men of high esteem. They were more handsome. They had more money. They had more charm. They were better in every way. But this man knew he had the goods too, if not in such a polished way. “I…
15 Lessons for Young Men: Judge by actions, not by words (Lesson 3)
A guy called a woman and asked her out. The guy was nervous, was scared; he was shy. “So we’re set for tomorrow night?” “Umm, yeah,” she replied. Then, tomorrow night came. The guy agonized over the date the entire day. How should he act? What shall he wear? Did he have enough money? Would…
15 Lessons for Young Men: How to Avoid the Friendzone (Lesson 2)
The woman enters the house followed by a guy. The guy is all smiles thinking that great acts of intimacy are about to occur. But, alas, the woman launches into a rant about men. “My ex-boyfriend was such a jerk,” she began. “Why is it that men treat me so roughly?” The guy then transformed…
15 Lessons for Young Men: Rejection is better than Regret (Lesson 1)
A young man sat and pondered the next phase of his life. “It is time,” he said, “for a girlfriend.” Yet, this new course in his life seemed both exciting and frightening. “But success will not come without much failure,” he realized. “If only there was a way to avoid the painful trials ahead.” And…