Patience: What truly makes a Don Juan
I have observed guys that had it all (looks, confidence, experience, and even interest from the women). I was envious of these guys for they seemed to know what they were doing and knew how to do it well. I was in awe of how they could be so smooth with the ladies. Their abilities […]
On Mystery
The girls and everyone I know keep saying I’m a ‘mystery’. I don’t try to be. I don’t intend to be. I even try to explain myself to them. Yet, the mystery (to them) remains. So mystery must be more than what you reveal. Apparently, people try to define everyone else they meet. We try […]
Why “Let’s Just Be Friends”
Let us interview the subjects… The AFC, aka Mr. Nice Guy, comes walking in, crying and bubbling. Pook shines the light in his eyes and walks around him in a circle. Now, Mr. Nice Guy, why are you so sad?” “Because… (sob), the girl I want only sees me as a friend!” “What! How do […]
If life seems hard and unhappy, read this!
Behold the lurker! After having been here for a while, the lurker may well exclaim: “I was wrong to hope this website would make my love life easier. What a portrait of mankind! Here I was, only looking for easier ways to get laid. Now I am re-examining my entire life! I now think of […]
Habit is All
The reason for my success is habit. A Don Juan is a sum of correct habits. This pales to other ideas. Some think message boards contain magic which will instantly turn one into a Don Juan. Others think special spirits will jump out of the DJ Bible and blossom you to a Don Juan. But this […]