Anti Dump had a metaphor that I like a lot:
You should be free as a bird, flapping around, singing, full of joy with life. Women want to ****** the bird and throw it in a cage (cage = commitment).
When birds try to fly into the cage, wouldn’t you think something is wrong with that bird? After all, who wants a bird that WANTS to be in the cage? No, women want the birds that are FREE, WILD, and BEAUTIFUL. They want A GOOD CATCH. Good Catches do not fly into cages. Only wounded or needy birds do.
Women aren’t complicated, our feelings just get in the way of what we WANT to do rather then what we SHOULD do. We want to rub their feet and build statues of them. We should demand respect and reward them only for good behavior.
True passion can only be achieved when the man is willing to walk away at a moment’s notice. After all, if you say “I love you!” after a coffee date, then the passion is gone because you have shown that you will not walk away.
Flowers and gifts should be used as a REWARD, not as an item to BUY her affections.
When a woman treats you with indifference, you challenge her.
When a woman treats you with disrespect, you punish her by withdrawing your affection and time.
When a woman treats you well with respect and the affection you want, you reward her.
I think the solid line of thought that will get you as many girls as you want and keep your relationships bright and fiery is: Do not have desire.
Of course, being desire-less is impossible. You can go up to any guy and talk, right? You should be able to do the same with women. The only things that are holding you back is 1) Not understanding women 2) Desire makes you too nervous and uptight.
With all the great articles at this site and this message forum, you’ll eliminate number 1 quite fast. Number 2 is a bit harder. Some people are naturals at it (Peak). Others have to go through a long series of crash and burns, rejections, and horrible relationships before they realize it was their desire that made them overlook all flaws and made them act illogically (Anti-Dump).
You should be commended since MOST men think they are MASTERS at romance (everyone thinks they are right about everything). By coming here, you are already on the path to becoming a DON JUAN. Soon, women will tremble with passion in your presence. If you’re serious about educating yourself, then this site is going to change your life.
It did for me.
