Patience: What truly makes a Don Juan

I have observed guys that had it all (looks, confidence, experience, and even interest from the women). I was envious of these guys for they seemed to know what they were doing and knew how to do it well. I was in awe of how they could be so smooth with the ladies. Their abilities…

On Mystery

The girls and everyone I know keep saying I’m a ‘mystery’. I don’t try to be. I don’t intend to be. I even try to explain myself to them. Yet, the mystery (to them) remains. So mystery must be more than what you reveal. Apparently, people try to define everyone else they meet. We try…

Why “Let’s Just Be Friends”

Let us interview the subjects… The AFC, aka Mr. Nice Guy, comes walking in, crying and bubbling. Pook shines the light in his eyes and walks around him in a circle. Now, Mr. Nice Guy, why are you so sad?” “Because… (sob), the girl I want only sees me as a friend!” “What! How do…

If life seems hard and unhappy, read this!

Behold the lurker! After having been here for a while, the lurker may well exclaim: “I was wrong to hope this website would make my love life easier. What a portrait of mankind! Here I was, only looking for easier ways to get laid. Now I am re-examining my entire life! I now think of…

Habit is All

The reason for my success is habit. A Don Juan is a sum of correct habits. This pales to other ideas. Some think message boards contain magic which will instantly turn one into a Don Juan. Others think special spirits will jump out of the DJ Bible and blossom you to a Don Juan. But this…

Attention Whores

BGMan wrote: People who read and actually believe what Crowes wrote WILL be strung around and used by ATTENTION WHORES unless you wake up! Yes, it does appear there are ‘attention whores’ who do all they can to get male attention. But I prefer to think of them as loving the sport rather than the…

Good Girls Do Cheat

Oh! So much to comment on in this thread! Deep Dish Congrats on pointing out the Dracula metaphor. There was a Native American myth of women who had teethed vaginas in such the male does not exit the same as he entered. The Dracula metaphor is found in almost all mythologies in the world. Here…

Feminism Put On Trial!

“All rise!” sosuave.com enters the courtroom with extravagant robes. Like an old man, he walks slowly to the judge’s chair and sits. Everyone else sits after him. sosuave.com puts on his glasses and says softly, “What is the matter?” The officer quickly walked over to sosuave.com and handed him the papers. Squinting through his glasses,…

Feeling down about your love life? Read this!

OK. So you don’t have a girlfriend. You’re not getting any sex. On your current course, you’re about to become a Monk. You feel down and saddened. Why!? “But Pook, I got no girl!” That is not the problem. The problem is that you place your happiness on a girl. You can’t be happy in…

Cocky And Funny?

When you’re in a line or doing something boring (like work), why not spice it up with that attitude? Works wonders! A recent example: A girl was in a happy mood (for whatever reason). I gave her a Pookish grin and said, “You’re happy because I’m here!” Big smile on her face and she shook…